Please don’t think that this is some porn article…. hehe… Its Not. And all people who came here expecting to see some, I’m very sorry to disappoint you. Infact its exactly opposite to that. Its Research. Survey. :D
I found a link about some reasons for sexual behavior while looking at the mysterious (and disgusting) Oedipus Complex… and when I investigated a little further, I ended up with a PDF document which analyzed 1,549 persons to find out that there are 237 different reasons why people have sex. I have to say, I was pretty surprised. I thought people had sex for three reasons only:
- Reproduction
- Pleasure
- Social Relationship
So I downloaded the pdf and when I looked at the contents, I thought I HAD TO share this. Very very hilarious reasons. Have a look at them. You will Roll on the floor Laughing. You have to admit that having Sex “to change the topic of conversation” or because “It was an initiation rite to a club or organization”is funny. I know that this was supposed to be a very serious investigation into human sexual behaviour and everything, but I can’t help myself but burst out when I look at SOME of them.
As it is my duty, I warn all the children reading this, there may be some adult content present here, and you are not allowed to view this. Exit immediately… :D
The Complete 237 Reasons are given at the end.
Click on these to go to a specific topic….
1. Top 50 reasons why WOMEN have sex
2. The 50 most infrequent reasons why WOMEN have sex
3. Top 50 reasons why MEN have sex
4. The 50 most infrequent reasons why MEN have sex
5. 237 Reasons why HUMANS have sex
6. The Original Article in a PDF
Top 50 reasons why WOMEN have sex:
- I was attracted to the person
- I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
- It feels good
- I wanted to show my affection to the person
- I wanted to express my love for the person
- I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
- I was ‘‘horny’’
- It’s fun
- I realized I was in love
- I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment’’
- I wanted to please my partner
- I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)
- I wanted the pure pleasure
- I wanted to achieve an orgasm
- It’s exciting, adventurous
- I wanted to feel connected to the person
- The person’s physical appearance turned me on
- It was a romantic setting
- The person really desired me
- The person made me feel sexy
- The person caressed me
- It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship
- I wanted to become one with another person
- It just happened
- I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex
- I wanted the experience
- I wanted the adventure/excitement
- The person had an attractive face
- The person was a good kisser
- I wanted to intensify my relationship
- My hormones were out of control
- I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions
- I wanted to feel loved
- The person had a desirable body
- I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special
- I wanted to communicate at a ‘‘deeper’’ level
- I was curious about sex
- It was a special occasion
- The person was intelligent
- I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you’’
- I wanted to keep my partner satisfied
- I got ‘‘carried away’’
- The opportunity presented itself
- The person had a great sense of humor
- I wanted to improve my sexual skills
- I was curious about my sexual abilities
- The person seemed self-confident
- I wanted to make up after a fight
- I was drunk
- I was turned on by the sexual conversation
The 50 most infrequent reasons why WOMEN have sex:
- I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease (e.g., herpes, AIDS)
- Someone offered me money to do it
- I wanted to get a raise
- It was an initiation rite to a club or organization
- I wanted to get a job
- I wanted to get a promotion
- The person offered to give me drugs for doing it
- I wanted to punish myself
- I wanted to hurt/humiliate the person
- I wanted to feel closer to God
- I wanted to breakup my relationship
- I wanted to breakup another's relationship
- I wanted to be used or degraded
- I wanted to gain access to that person's friend
- I wanted to get a favor from someone
- I wanted to enhance my reputation
- It would get me gifts
- I wanted to make money
- I wanted to hurt an enemy
- Because of a bet
- It was a favor to someone
- I wanted to end the relationship
- I wanted to break up a rival's relationship by having sex with his/ her partner
- It would damage my reputation if I said "no"
- The person had a lot of money
- Someone dared me
- I wanted to have more sex than my friends
- I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner
- I thought it would boost my social status
- I wanted to be popular
- I wanted to get a special favor from someone
- I was afraid to say "no" due to the possibility of physical harm
- I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps
- My friends pressured me into it
- I felt sorry for the person
- I felt jealous
- My regular partner is boring, so I had sex with someone else
- I wanted to get rid of a headache
- I wanted to change the topic of conversation
- The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them
- I wanted to impress friends
- The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her
- I wanted to get out of doing something
- I wanted to get even with someone (i.e., revenge)
- I wanted to make someone else jealous
- I was competing with someone else to "get the person"
- I thought it would help "trap" a new partner
- I was slumming
- I wanted to brag to friends about my conquests
- The person demanded that I have sex with him/her
Top 50 reasons why MEN have sex:
- I was attracted to the person
- It feels good
- I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
- It’s fun
- I wanted to show my affection to the person
- I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
- I was ‘‘horny’’
- I wanted to express my love for the person
- I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
- I wanted to please my partner
- The person’s physical appearance turned me on
- I wanted the pure pleasure
- I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment’’
- I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)
- It’s exciting, adventurous
- The person had a desirable body
- I realized I was in love
- The person had an attractive face
- The person really desired me
- I wanted the adventure/excitement
- I wanted to feel connected to the person
- I wanted the experience
- It was a romantic setting
- The person caressed me
- The person made me feel sexy
- It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship
- I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex
- I wanted to keep my partner satisfied
- The opportunity presented itself
- It just happened
- I wanted to intensify my relationship
- I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions
- My hormones were out of control
- The person was too ‘‘hot’’ (sexy) to resist
- I was curious about my sexual abilities
- I wanted to improve my sexual skills
- I wanted to become one with another person
- I saw the person naked and could not resist
- The person was a good kisser
- I wanted to feel loved
- I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special
- The person was too physically attractive to resist
- It was a special occasion
- I hadn’t had sex for a while
- The person had beautiful eyes
- I wanted to communicate at a ‘‘deeper’’ level
- I wanted to experiment with new experiences
- The person was intelligent
- I wanted to keep my partner happy
- I was curious about what the person was like in bed
The 50 most infrequent reasons why MEN have sex:
- The person offered to give me drugs for doing it
- I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease (e.g., herpes, AIDS)
- I wanted to punish myself
- I wanted to breakup my relationship
- I wanted to get a job
- It was an initiation rite to a club or organization
- Someone offered me money to do it
- I was afraid to say "no" due to the possibility of physical harm
- I wanted to make money
- I wanted to feel closer to God
- I wanted to get a raise
- I wanted to hurt/humiliate the person
- Because of a bet
- I wanted to breakup another's relationship
- I wanted to get a promotion
- I wanted to hurt an enemy
- It would get me gifts
- The person had a lot of money
- I wanted to be used or degraded
- I wanted to break up a rival's relationship by having sex with his/her partner
- I wanted to get rid of a headache
- It would damage my reputation if I said "no"
- I wanted to get back at my partner for having cheated on me
- I felt sorry for the person
- I wanted to gain access to that person's friend
- I wanted to be popular
- I was physically forced to
- I felt jealous
- The person bought me jewelry
- I wanted to end the relationship
- My friends pressured me into it
- It was a favor to someone
- I wanted to get a favor from someone
- Someone dared me
- I wanted to avoid hurting someone's feelings
- My regular partner is boring, so I had sex with someone else
- I wanted to be popular
- I felt guilty
- I wanted to enhance my reputation
- I wanted to gain acceptance from friends
- I thought it would boost my social status
- I thought it would help "trap" a new partner
- I was mad at my partner, so I had sex with someone else
- I wanted to get out of doing something
- I wanted to have a child
- I wanted to make someone else jealous
- I wanted to change the topic of conversation
- I wanted to defy my parents
- I wanted to stop my partner's nagging
- I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me
237 Reasons why HUMANS (includes both Men and Women) have sex :
- The person's physical appearance turned me on.
- The person had a desirable body.
- I wanted the pure pleasure.
- I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
- I wanted the adventure/excitement.
- The person had an attractive face.
- I was "horny."
- It's fun.
- The person was too "hot" (sexy) to resist.
- It feels good.
- I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
- The person was too physically attractive to resist.
- I wanted to improve my sexual skills.
- It's exciting, adventurous.
- I wanted to experiment with new experiences.
- I saw the person naked and could not resist.
- I wanted the experience.
- The opportunity presented itself.
- I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions.
- I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
- I was curious about what the person was like in bed.
- I had not had sex in a long time.
- I was turned on by the sexual conversation.
- The person smelled nice.
- The person had beautiful eyes.
- The person was really desired by others.
- The person really desired me.
- My hormones were out of control.
- The person wore revealing clothes.
- I am a sex addict.
- I wanted to get the most out of life.
- I thought it would relax me.
- I'm addicted to sex.
- I was curious about my sexual abilities.
- I hadn't had sex for a while.
- The person was a good kisser.
- I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with another person.
- The person caressed me.
- The person made me feel sexy.
- I wanted to release tension.
- The person was a good dancer.
- The person was "available."
- I was curious about sex.
- I wanted to release anxiety/stress.
- It would allow me to "get sex out of my system" so that I could focus on other things.
- I was attracted to the person.
- The person seemed self-confident.
- I was frustrated and needed relief.
- I wanted to feel masculine.
- I wanted to act out a fantasy.
- I wanted to satisfy a compulsion.
- I knew the person was usually "out of my league."
- The person had a great sense of humor.
- It just happened.
- I wanted to see whether sex with a different partner would feel different or better.
- I was "in the heat of the moment."
- I wanted to please my partner.
- It was easier to "go all the way" than to stop.
- I wanted to see what all the fuss is about.
- I could brag to other people about my sexual experience.
- I wanted to see if I could get the other person into bed.
- I was drunk.
- I wanted to increase the number of sex partners I had experienced.
- I got "carried away."
- I wanted to relieve "blue balls."
- The person was mysterious.
- An erotic movie had turned me on.
- I wanted to celebrate something.
- I thought it would make me feel healthy.
- It seemed like good exercise.
- It became a habit.
- I wanted to make a conquest.
- I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex while stoned (e.g., on marijuana or some other drug).
- I was bored.
- I wanted to lose my inhibitions.
- The person flattered me.
- I was under the influence of drugs.
- I wanted to have something to tell my friends.
- I was tired of being a virgin.
- I wanted to get rid of aggression.
- I wanted to dominate the other person.
- I was seduced.
- I wanted to get a raise.
- I wanted to get a job.
- I wanted to get a promotion.
- It was an initiation rite to a club or organization.
- I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease (e.g., herpes, AIDS).
- I wanted to punish myself.
- Someone offered me money to do it.
- I wanted to gain access to that person's friend.
- I wanted to break up a rival's relationship by having sex with his/her partner.
- I wanted to hurt an enemy.
- I wanted to get rid of a headache.
- I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner.
- I wanted to get a favor from someone.
- I wanted to breakup another's relationship.
- Because of a bet.
- The person offered to give me drugs for doing it.
- My regular partner is boring, so I had sex with someon e else.
- I wanted to hurt/humiliate the person.
- I wanted to breakup my relationship.
- I wanted to be popular.
- The person had a lot of money.
- I felt jealous.
- I wanted to make money.
- I wanted to get a special favor from someone.
- I thought it would boost my social status.
- It was a favor to someone.
- I was mad at my partner, so I had sex with someone else.
- The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them.
- It would damage my reputation if I said "no."
- I wanted to be used or degraded.
- I wanted to get out of doing something.
- I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps.
- I wanted to enhance my reputation.
- I wanted to impress friends.
- I wanted to change the topic of conversation.
- It would get me gifts.
- The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her.
- I wanted to feel closer to God.
- I wanted to get even with someone (i.e., get revenge).
- Someone had told me that this person was good in bed.
- I was afraid to say "no" due to the possibility of physical harm.
- I wanted to make someone else jealous.
- I wanted to end the relationship.
- Someone dared me.
- The person had bought me jewelry.
- My friends pressured me into it.
- I wanted to get back at my partner for having cheated on me.
- I wanted to make someone else jealous.
- I was competing with someone else to "get the person."
- I wanted to brag to my friends about my conquests.
- I wanted to have more sex than my friends.
- I wanted to keep warm.
- I thought it would help me to fall asleep.
- I wanted to become more focused on work - sexual thoughts are distracting.
- I wanted to have a child.
- I was slumming.
- The person had taken me out for an expensive dinner.
- I wanted to burn calories.
- I wanted to reproduce.
- I wanted to test my compatibility with a new partner.
- I wanted to avoid hurting someone's feelings.
- I was on the "rebound" from another relationship.
- I wanted to defy my parents.
- It's considered "taboo" by society.
- I needed another "notch on my belt."
- I wanted to reaffirm my sexual orientation.
- I wanted to return a favor.
- I wanted to gain acceptance from my friends.
- Everyone else was having sex.
- I was married and you're supposed to.
- I realized I was in love.
- I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex.
- I wanted to show my affection to the person.
- I wanted to communicate at a deeper level.
- I wanted to express my love for the person.
- I wanted to become one with another person.
- I wanted to feel connected to the person.
- I wanted to say "I've missed you."
- I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion.
- I wanted to intensify my relationship.
- It was a romantic setting.
- I wanted to welcome someone home.
- I wanted to say "I'm sorry."
- I wanted to put the passion back into my relationship.
- I wanted to say "goodbye."
- I wanted to say "Thank you."
- I wanted to lift my partner's spirits.
- It was a special occasion.
- I wanted to get a partner to express love.
- It seemed like the natural next step.
- The person was intelligent.
- I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy).
- I wanted to help my partner forget about his/her problems.
- I wanted to keep my partner satisfied.
- I wanted the person to feel good about himself/herself.
- I wanted to make up after a fight.
- I wanted a "spiritual" experience.
- I felt insecure.
- I felt like it was my duty.
- I felt obligated to.
- I didn't know how to say "no."
- I didn't want to disappoint the person.
- I didn't want to "lose" the person.
- I was pressured into doing it.
- I wanted the person to love me.
- I was verbally coerced into it.
- I wanted to boost my self-esteem.
- I wanted my partner to notice me.
- I wanted to be nice.
- I wanted to feel attractive.
- I wanted to keep my partner happy.
- It was expected of me.
- I felt guilty.
- I was afraid my partner would have an affair if I didn't have sex with him/her.
- I wanted to feel loved.
- I felt like I owed it to the person.
- I wanted to feel powerful.
- I wanted him/her to stop bugging me about sex.
- I wanted to make myself feel better about myself.
- I was feeling lonely.
- I wanted to keep my partner from straying.
- I wanted to feel good about myself.
- I wanted to feel loved.
- I wanted to get my partner to stay with me.
- My partner kept insisting.
- I wanted to raise my self-esteem.
- I wanted to decrease my partner's desire to have sex with someone else.
- It was the only way my partner would spend time with me.
- I thought it would help "trap" a new partner.
- I was physically forced to.
- I wanted to "possess" the person.
- I wanted to keep my partner from straying.
- The person demanded that I have sex with him/her.
- I wanted to make my partner feel powerful.
- I felt sorry for the person.
- I was trying to "get over" an earlier person/relationship.
- I felt rebellious.
- It just seemed like "the thing to do."
- I wanted to stop my partners' nagging.
- I wanted to submit to my partner.
- I wanted to ensure the relationship was "committed."
- I wanted to make the person feel better about herself/himself.
- I wanted to feel older.
- I wanted to prevent a breakup.
- I wanted to display submission.
- I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me.
- I wanted the attention.
- It was just part of the relationship "routine".
- I had no self-control.
- I wanted to "gain control" of the person.
- I wanted to feel feminine.
- I wanted to forget about my problems.
- I wanted to feel young.
- I wanted to fulfill a previous promise to my partner.
- My friends were having sex and I wanted to fit in.
Here is the complete PDF document of the article which appeared in the August 2007 Issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior.
Why Humans Have Sex
Man, it took one hell of a time to complete this. Converting a pdf document to formattable text a pain in the a**. Well, I did it and I am proud. All the reasons/images/text (exept the beginning intro) is not of my creation.
Enjoy…. :)
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7 Comments:
Hehe... Had fun?
Not so soon... Pick out your favourites... hehe.....
&$*$#&#%*^((()_^^$%#@$# !!!
...ie, the soft part inside my hard skull is temporarily out of order :P
hahaha !! :D !!
@Spurti:
C'mon.. itz not that bad....
Look at those reasons..... amazingly wierd and odd at the same time... hehe....
When you do get it back, have a closer look... :D
TTHAAANGGGG !!!
(mottikai 4 u soccer :P )
never said it's bad...
wanned to say that those reasons are so so weird that thet beet my thinking :D !!
OK !!
that was "they" not "thet" !!
and "beats" :P !
haha :D !
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